When
my neighbors moved into the house next door, they had three children under
three and both of them worked. Oh, yes, they were in a state of
constant exhaustion. By Friday evenings, they had
no energy for painting the town red or even pale pink. Thus came the tradition of Pizza Night.
Every
Friday night Cynthia would make pizza, the children would run around until
they dropped, and the parents would share as many quiet moments as they could
manage between diapers, skinned knees and worn out toddlers.
Steve
and I have been shamelessly mooching off Pizza Night for 12 years. I usually bring a salad for Cynthia, Steve and myself (Richard
doesn’t eat anything green), and Steve would nab a bottle of wine. We’d scarf that pizza and have a glass of
wine or two or, well, who’s counting after two?
At the end of the evening, we had only to stumble up the hill between
our houses.
Pizza
Night led to putting in concrete steeping stones on that hill. It led to my working with a couple of the
children on their reading (and, by proximity, half the neighborhood). It led to Steve building Boy Scout pinewood
derby cars with their boy (again extending to half the neighborhood). If nothing else, it led to endless
experimentation in pizza-making.
The
three children grew older; money and energy and the neighbors’ social life increased. We are frequently out of town; in fact, right
now Steve is working out in Washington State.
We lived in Russia for two years; that’ll put a crimp on a weekly
get-together (although Cynthia and Richard did visit us in Russia where we
enjoyed hatchapouri, a sort of Georgian pizza).
While no less welcome, Pizza Night occurred sporadically.
When
Cynthia invited me for pizza last Friday, of course, I said yes. But, alas! come Friday, Richard had caught
some nasty bug. What could we do? The children must still eat, therefore pizza must still
be made, so Cynthia prepared the children’s pizza and then climbed those stairs
and brought the fixin’s over here.
Because
she is a doll, Cynthia thanked me for allowing her to make pizza at my
house. I graciously accepted her appreciation. (Okay, what I really said was, “You’re
thanking me for allowing you to bring food over to my house and make me
dinner? You’re welcome.)
Two
mini pizzas (made on store-bought naan this time; isn’t she clever?) and two
glasses of wine later, we had pretty much covered politics (hope the right side
wins), child-rearing (the children scooped up tons of As in school) and the
marriages of half the neighborhood (hey, we’re only human).
Here’s
the thing. I don’t even like pizza all
that much, but I wouldn’t miss a Pizza Night for the world!
What a charming post! The links we create between ourselves -- particularly the ones we maintain -- change lives in ways we cannot foresee...
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Thank you, Pearl!
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